Handwritten is just better!

October 26, 2005 — 3 Comments

I have said it before: I am a technology guy. I love it. I love being able to shoot off a quick e-mail to someone with an “atta-boy” or go to Hallmak.com to fire off an e-card.

However, recently I have recommitted myself to a dying art: the art of the handwritten note. Now don’t get me wrong, e-mail is great. But there’s just something special about getting that handwritten note. It conveys the message that the sender thought enough about the recipient to take time to write something by hand.

Lydia Ramsey, in her article, “Business Note Etiquette: Sending Handwritten Notes,” says:

If you are looking for ways to stand from the crowd, to be noticed by your colleagues and clients, try putting pen to paper whenever you have the slightest excuse.

There are few acts more impressive than handwriting a letter or a note to someone with whom you do business or would like to. Most people think that writing notes by hand requires extra time and effort. Ironically, it can be quick and painless if you do it frequently and follow these tips:

1. Have writing supplies close at hand.
Store stationery and stamps in the most convenient place in your desk. When you need to send a note, all you have to do is reach for your stationary, dash off a few lines, address the envelope, put the stamp in place and mail it.

2. Keep your message brief.
These are notes so you only have to come up with three or four sentences. If you attempt to compose more than a few lines, writer’s block is liable to set in and you will never get past “start.”

3. Develop a system.
Before you head out of the office to a business meal or function that someone else is hosting, address an envelop to your host. It will be a breeze to jot down your short message when you return.

4. Use the appropriate professional stationary.
Both single-sided correspondence cards and fold-over notes with the company name or logo imprinted on them are business-like and will represent you and your organization well.

5. Poor penmanship is no excuse unless your handwriting is totally illegible.
The person who receives your note will appreciate your thoughtfulness and will not be grading your handwriting. If your penmanship does not meet your standards, it is never too late to improve. There are numerous resources at your library or on the Internet to teach you to write legibly.

6. Use any occasion to get noticed with a note.
A few of those instances are when…

  • You have received a gift
  • You were a guest in someone’s home
  • You were hosted to a meal
  • You received a business favor
  • You are replying to an invitation
  • You are sending condolences
  • You want to offer congratulations
  • You need to apologize

7. Make your message timely.
Whether you are sending a note of appreciation, congratulation or condolence, do it as quickly as possible. A thank you should go out within 24 to 48 hours. However, don’t forgo sending a note because you think too much time has elapsed. There is no definite statute of limitations on appreciation.

8. Understand that e-mail is not a substitute for the personal handwritten message.
The Internet is fast, efficient and remote. If you are corresponding by e-mail immediately following a meeting with a business associate, include your expression of gratitude, but don’t let that stop you from sending a second message by ground.

Successful people pay attention to the details and look for ways to build better business relationships. When you take the time to send handwritten notes, you will stand out from the crowd for all the right reasons. Your next big sale or job promotion may came about as a result of your doing business just a little differently.

For more inspiration, The Art of the Handwritten Note gives thorough instruction in the specific details that give so many men and women the jitters when it comes to correspondence that can’t (or shouldn’t) be produced on a keyboard. From overcoming illegible penmanship to mastering the challenge of keeping straight margins, avoiding smeared ink, and choosing stationery that is appropriate but suits your style, this is a powerful little guide to conveying thoughts in an enduring – and noteworthy – way.

(HT: Just Charlie)

Pat Callahan

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3 responses to Handwritten is just better!

  1. I am so quilty of e-mail and e-card messages. What a good reminder, people really do matter and I need to take time to use the pen.

  2. I am in my early 20's and have read nothing but Times New Roman my whole life. My wife and I received 3 thank you cards last week and had to colaborate on what they said. Not because of bad penmanship, but reading hand writing is hard for us because we never do it (especially that cursive stuff, haven't seen that since 4th grade :). That says a lot to how little the hand written note is known to our generation.

  3. Karen Chamberlin October 27, 2005 at 7:57 pm

    I agree wholeheartedly! Although I'm as guilty as the next person when it comes to e-mailing. Right now being a great example! Keep up the great work.I really enjoy it.

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